We’ve discovered that there are five levels of seducers. It’s important to know which level you are operating from, so you can assess yourself and move forward. Many men think they are operating at a higher level than they are. Once you can be honest about where you operate from, you can begin to make changes.

Flirting moves are not hard to do: it’s not physically difficult to wink, or to look into a Woman’s eyes. But flirting moves can be challenging if you are not used to doing them. The successful “level 4” or “level 5” seducer shows his romantic interest right away through his flirting. You must learn to do this, too, or women will see you as a friend. These are just the basic moves. Conversational...

It’s hard to generate a romantic contact out of an interaction you create by going up to a woman on the street. It’s possible, but it’s hard. To make life easier, you need to find niches. A niche is a place that you have found that pretty reliably puts eligible, attractive women in front of you. A skilled fisherman, for instance, doesn’t just throw his line in anywhere in a lake—he knows where the...

After a few weeks of studying the hottest “get laid quick” books, and armed with a few splashes of pheromone-scented sex cologne, Steve was ready to pick up a woman. He approached the first hot-looking woman in the packed dance club. She seemed like a willing t a rget and was gorgeous.

Remember this: you want to make women laugh. If you can make a woman laugh (so long as she isn’t laughing at your expense) then you are delighting her, and she’ll want to see you again. However, as most men know, women often find different things funny than men do. It’s easy to misuse humor with women, and to frighten and offend them instead. With that in mind, here’s a list of do’s for flirting...

I t’s important that you be able to flirt with women via email, both in responding to their ads,and in responding to their responses to your ad. This part will teach you some of the basics.

Pickup lines are a dreaded art form. They are like the Jerry Springer show, where you don’t want to watch, but can’t quite resist even though it is unbelievably dumb and predictable. At the very best, pickup lines are amusing. At the worst, they can be offensive and get a guy slapped. They are an important part of our cultural dating mythology and any true-blue sex lover must have an understanding...

1. Clear out the garage, attic, cupboards or wardrobes* - it really doesn't matter as long as you do it together. 2. Go charity shopping. While away the hours browsing for books, CDs, games, retro clothing, bric-a-brac. You could try a carboot sale or trawl round some antique shops. 3. Get some exercise. Go swimming or ice skating, or enjoy a walk in the rain.

Self-esteem is important for a healthy relationship. When you truly like yourself, in spite of any failings and weaknesses you may have, you'll feel confident. And when you feel confident and secure within yourself, you can enjoy being with your partner for the joy they bring to your life, not because you feel you need them to survive. For tips on building confidence see the Improving confidence...

Having things in common is often a major part of the initial attraction to our partners. Some anthropologists will tell you that at an unconscious level we even go so far as to choose partners who look like us. As a relationship develops, each shared experience gives us the chance to check out if we're compatible. Do we share the same taste in music? Do we laugh at the same jokes? Do we like the...

The most common things couples argue about are money, sex, work, children and housework - roughly in that order. Most rows start because of differences of opinion, but with patience and basic communication skills you should be able to negotiate a compromise. If you find the same old issues come up over and over again, or as soon as one issue's resolved another crops up, then there's more going...

1.Are you overreacting because you're tired and stressed? 2.Could the anger you feel be at someone or something else? 3.Are you hormonal at the moment and feeling unusually irritable or sensitive?4.Is your mood being affected by illness?

it's important to accept that arguments are a normal part of relationships. We're all different and where there's difference, there will be disagreement. But when arguing seems to be a way of life and leaves you feeling exhausted, hurt or wondering if you want to stay in the relationship, it's time to call a truce and sort things out.

We've all experienced jealousy at some time in our lives, although the reasons why each of us gets jealous and the emotions we feel may differ. According to clinical psychologist Ayala Malach Pines, "jealousy is a complex reaction to a perceived threat to a valued relationship or to its quality". Unlike envy, it always involves a fear of loss and three people.

ake your first sheet of paper and divide it into two columns. Call the first column "My jealousy triggers." Under this heading, write down as many things as you can remember that have made you jealous in the past. Include things that happened in previous relationships as well as your current one. You might want to list things such as hearing stories about your partner's ex, knowing...